The night before middle school, every creature was stirring, even the dog!
It’s here, a day I really don’t understand how it arrived. I was just taking my daughter to Kindergarten, really I was. Yea, people say… they grow up so fast, time flies and a dozen other expressions- but they are just words. That is until YOU experience it first hand.
So what do you do the night before, and how can you help prepare your child for this big transition? Here’s a few tips on things we did.
Of course we picked out clothes, made her lunch and even prepared breakfast (yes the night before). These go beyond those basics.
The Night Before Middle School
First, journal. I asked my daughter to reflect on her summer. I had her journal about the past couple months, the various camps, family time and anything else that made an impression. Then I asked her to write down her thoughts about starting Jr. High. I don’t like to lead with a common phrase, “good and bad” because I instead prefer an open ended statement.
The truth is, they probably won’t be able to recite these exact feelings about summer and summer details better, than right now. It will be such a great snapshot for them in the future to look back on.
Second, remind them how powerful words are. I’m sure you’ve talked about it before but they’re still kids and need lots of reminders 🙂 The best quote I’ve heard, with the impact I’m looking for:
Once you’re words are said, they can only be forgiven not forgotten.
Being responsible for your words, and reactions are a big part of growing up!
Third, be friendly. What do you want to do when someone smiles at you- smile back, right? A smile is inviting and welcoming! Don’t be afraid to introduce yourself to someone new. Spend more time asking about them, than talking about yourself. Lastly, most important, treat others as you want to be treated.
Fourth, review expectations. How do you expect them to act at school, during lunch, after school. If they have a phone, what are the guidelines for school hours?
That basically sums it up. Happy first day of school!
*If your tween has already started school, no worries. It’s not too late, no better time than the present.
